Wednesday, 16 April 2025

BRICS and the Battle for the Future


 

From Economic Bloc to Global Geostrategic Power

In the shadow of an exhausted liberal order and amid the smoke of a new trade war, a quiet revolution is unfolding—not in the halls of Washington or Brussels, but in the south-south corridors stretching from São Paulo to Shanghai, Pretoria to St. Petersburg. It’s called BRICS, and it’s no longer just an acronym. It’s a signal.

Monday, 10 March 2025

The Glass, the Gaze, and the Grand Illusion of Intention.

 

The Question You’ve Been Asking Wrong

A scientist, an artist, and a man dying of thirst look at the same glass of water. The scientist sees molecular structure, surface tension, the physics of volume. The artist sees light bending through liquid, an interplay of transparency and form. The thirsty man sees salvation—or a cruel reminder of what he lacks.

Same glass. Same water. Three different truths.

Wednesday, 29 January 2025

The Mirage That Moves Mountains: Understanding Effective Truth

The mirage that moves mountains

Imagine a man lost in the desert, dehydrated, desperate. On the horizon, he spots a shimmering oasis. The palm trees wave gently in the hot wind, and the promise of cool water beckons him forward. He stumbles toward it, hope propelling his exhausted body. When he finally reaches the spot, he discovers—there is no oasis. It was a mirage all along. Yet, that mirage saved his life by giving him the will to move.

Friday, 1 December 2023

The Power of Attitudes: “How to Do” vs. “Can Do”

 


A lot has been said about attitude in this generation, so I won’t bore you with redundant information. Attitude often takes center stage in the grand theatre of life. It’s the driving force that propels us toward our goals and shapes our perspective on challenges. It is also a determining factor of both success and failure. In the world of attitudes, two key players stand out: the “how to do” attitude and the “can do” attitude. While they may seem similar at first glance, they offer distinct approaches to achieving success, whether in the workplace, in personal endeavors, or when facing life’s uncertainties. Let’s explore the differences between these two attitudes and the impact they can have on our lives.

Wednesday, 1 November 2023

The Power of Every Moment: Embracing the Unstoppable Flow of Time


Has someone ever asked you if you have a minute to spare?

You most likely replied, “yea, sure. What’s up?”

The truth is; you don’t. You don’t have a minute to spare.

Thursday, 29 September 2022

The 2023 General Elections: A Test of Values.




As the 2023 election campaigns officially begin, I can’t help thinking about this particular quote attributed to former US president Barack Obama. In the wake of president Obama’s first term election victory, he was quoted to have made a statement to GOP leaders which included

Tuesday, 7 June 2022

The title Things Fall Apart is taken from a poem by who?



While reading Things Fall Apart, you probably overlooked the epigraph or didn't care so much about it.

Turning and turning in the widening gyre
The falcon cannot hear the falconer;
Things fall apart; the centre cannot hold;
Mere anarchy is loosed upon the world,

This is the opening stanza of the poem,

Monday, 14 February 2022

WHY ARE YOU SABOTAGING YOURSELF?

 Are you still running with your New Year Resolutions and Goals or have you abandoned it the same way you did last year, with a mental note to go at it again next year? Do you even still remember what the resolutions are?

Monday, 1 November 2021

THE LAW OF DIMINISHING INTENT: Why you need to act now.

Law of diminishing intent

I first heard of the law of diminishing intent from Jim Rohn in one of his teaching videos. So what is this law about?

Here is John Maxwell’s explanation in an excerpt from his book, 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth:

“When I was a kid, one of my father’s favourite riddles to us went like this: Five frogs are sitting on a log. Four decide to jump off. How many are left?

Friday, 2 July 2021

LOCUS OF CONTROL: The Key to Taking Control of Your Life


As you go through life and come across its attendant highs and lows, you can either associate your experiences; the successes and/or failures, to factors you have control over or to forces outside your control. Whichever disposition you choose has a direct influence on your long-term success or failure.

Wednesday, 2 June 2021

OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF FAILURE: The courage to get things done.


Overcoming the Fear of Failure

Everything we do is driven by something. Some of our actions are driven by love. Some are driven by hate. Money is also a powerful driver. Some people also act based on their religious sentiments.

I was recently reminded of another powerful driver, Fear. Having the opportunity to meet with a lot of people from different walks of life on a daily basis, I peer into the psychological depths of many of them and see all kinds of emotions on their faces. One thing that is constantly reoccurring and almost impossible to ignore is Fear. These faces are adult faces, so the fear I see is not fear of the dark or of monsters. It is a fear that paralyzes us to act.

Saturday, 1 May 2021

Break it Down!


Have you ever felt the stress and pressure that comes with trying to complete a huge task in your work? I bet you have. It’s more like an everyday struggle, isn’t it? You are not alone.

Thursday, 1 April 2021

Does Your Routine Work For You?

 


 

 

Life is messy. Every day we meet series of activities that compete ruthlessly for our time. We spend a huge chunk of our day struggling, often unsuccessfully, to squeeze in all our responsibilities at home and at work into the time available to us. Not to forget the time we spend on our most common obsession, the social media.

Monday, 1 March 2021

Do Not Be Satisfied

A new-born starts life being carried around; soon he becomes unsatisfied with being carried around, and begins trying to sit on his own. When he has mastered sitting, still unsatisfied with his level of achievement, he starts learning to crawl, then stand, walk, run and in some cases fly. Not being satisfied with a status quo has been the starting point of all advancements. Every worthwhile achievement and invention has always started with “not being satisfied”; it is a force that pushes us to be better and do better. It impresses in us a strong desire to make better use of the resources available to us to create a better environment for ourselves. If you are not “not satisfied”, you will not have any desire to invest any time or effort in improving any aspect of your life or achieving any objective, actually, you will not have any objective. You will simply not care; you would be satisfied.

Friday, 17 April 2020

The Timekeeper

He doesn’t know it yet but on January 4th, at 79 years of age, Ifeanyi will be laid to eternal rest at his wife’s side. On March 4th at 29 years, he and his wife will have their first child on February 4th, when he is 26, they will be married. Today, December 4th at 24, he will meet his wife.

Sunday, 15 March 2020

Chioma (excerpt from a WIP)

An ebony beautiful girl sitting alone

The moon dotted generously and flattered the New Ritzy spot, the marble columns seemed to glisten as the moon poured down graciously on them—it was a beautiful place. The fact that it was an open space with the evening zephyr coming at intervals made it all the more sensual. To Chioma’s eye this place was much too grand for her and the waiter who obviously had more flamboyance than she did appeared to have agreed with her.

Thursday, 3 January 2019

ONE NIGERIA


A Nigerian map with the colours of the Nigerian flag
"Relax Ikemba, this is a personal story only few people have heard.” he said after he paused to look at my face. “And I’m sure you’ll find it interesting.”
Jerry Obiagbor, a renowned professor of History, was heading to Abuja for the Independence Day celebration when his car broke down on his way to the Akanu Ibiam International Airport, Enugu. It was my wife, Adekemi, who first spotted him leaning against his car along the Emene express.
I had insisted on a souvenir; especially since I was going to turn back towards old Abakaliki road. After some light-hearted haggling, my wife suggested he give us a significant, personal story, only very few people had heard. He thought for a while before he found a story; the story of the Nigerian Civil War.

Saturday, 1 December 2018

Day of Revelations


A church building with a bra hanging from the roof and a hand showing panties to a pastor



Udochukwu’s awed eyes stared on, following the singer’s every move. Ngozi, a sister from evangelism stood by her side with both hands raised in worship, “his voice is angelic, right?” she said when the worship ceased, bringing Udo back to the real world. Udo sat back down without responding; she wasn’t sure what Ngozi meant.
Udochukwu was such a woman who had not much to regret in her short beautiful, yet experience

Sunday, 4 February 2018

The Italian Wife

Title: The Italian Wife
Author: Kate Furnivall
Genre: Historical fiction
Setting: Italy 1932

The Italian Wife is set in 1932 in the midst of Mussolini’s hunger for a new Fascist Italy. In a fictional town named Bellina, an addition to the five cities Il Deuce built after draining Italy’s Pontine Marshes in the 1930s. It was an engineering feat that actually employed 124,000 men in 1933. In this intriguing tale, a woman Isabella Berotti is one of the famed architects, the only female. She focuses all her attention on her work relishing the transformation of the town built on the once mosquito infested marshland. She was married to one of Mussolini’s infamous soldiers, the Blackshirts.


Sunday, 26 March 2017

If Mama had talked about it

A mother and her daughter.


Today is Mothering Sunday and this year marks the closest mama and I have ever been. WhatsApp has definitely contributed to building communication between us. Yet while we talk more, we still don’t talk about it (sex) all. We have never gotten around to talking about my experiences with the drunk uncle who tried to sleep with me, I have never shared my feelings of self-hate with her or that her comparing me to her friend’s children all through childhood greatly contributed to this. Despite similar body types we have never had an honest discussion on our bodies (and even as I progress on the journey to loving mine I wish she had loved it first and hers as well) most especially, we’ve never had any pertinent discussion on sex. Not the right to it, not the enjoyment of it, and definitely not the questions of self-doubt and requirement of self-confidence that come with it.