Here is John Maxwell’s explanation in an excerpt
from his book, 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth:
“When I was a kid, one of my father’s favourite riddles to us went like
this: Five frogs are sitting on a log. Four decide to jump off. How many are
left?
“The first time he asked me, I answered, “One.”
“No,” he responded, “Five. Why? Because there’s a difference between
deciding and doing!”
“Most people don’t act as quickly
as they should on things. They find themselves subject to the Law of
Diminishing Intent, which says, “The longer you wait to do something you should
do now, the greater the odds that you will never actually do it.”
There’s a huge chance that,
just like most people, you have been a victim of the law as well. I bet we’ve all experienced it. We have that great idea and think of the
endless possibilities, we’re so excited about it and get motivated to take
action. That spark of motivation might
come from a desire to make a change, to start something new, to remove a bad
habit from our life.
Then what
happens?
We take
the easiest route available. We put it off until tomorrow. We hand the ball off
to the Future us. Then tomorrow comes and we don’t do what we said we would.
Here are some tips to make
sure that you overcome the law of diminishing intent:
1. Set clear and SMART goals
When you set
goals make sure they are as clear as possible. Ensure that they are SMART—Specific,
Measurable, Achievable, Relevant/Realistic, Time bound. Your goals should force
you out of your comfort zone, stretch your ability and still remain attainable.
2. Make sure the goals are
original
Very often we
choose goals because they are popular or because we are pressured by others to
make them a goal. If the goal is not truly what you want for yourself, you are
less likely to follow through difficult processes to achieve it. When you set
goals for yourself, it is important that they are what you want and that they
motivate you. There should be a value to achieving them; that’s what keeps the motivation.
Motivation is key.
3. Use emotion to boost action
As humans, we
are driven by our emotions, hence we are more inclined to do things when we are
excited, energized, and happy about them. Emotion can be a strong force, and
using that force to get started right away can give you a most necessary head
start. The key is to set up the discipline
while the emotion is at its peak.
4. Write them down
Writing down
goals make them more real and tangible, this helps create a vision in your mind.
This
is important because when we see something, it affects how we act. Frame your goal statement
positively using the word “will”, it will improve your retention rate.
5. Always keep your why in
perspective
First you have to look at
your why as objectively as possible. German
philosopher Frederick Nietzsche once said, “He who has a ‘why’ can endure any ‘how’.”
Indeed, only when you know your ‘why’ will you find the courage to take the
risks needed to get ahead, stay motivated when the chips are down, and move
your life onto an entirely new, more challenging, and more rewarding
trajectory.
Consistently
remind yourself of why you are doing the particular activity. What are the
benefits? Why is that goal important to you? If your why is big enough and you
rehearse it often enough, you are more likely to achieve success.
6. Plan your path of action
A lot of persons
miss this step when an idea comes to them. They get so focused on the outcome
that they forget to plan. As soon as you have an intention, plan your action.
That’s the doing. If you plan to start an exercise program in the gym; decide which
gym, when you’ll go there, and what you will need to get started. If you do not
plan how to get to your goal there is a higher probability that you will never
even get started.
7. Do it immediately
Start immediately.
This is one of the quickest ways to overcome the law of diminishing intent.
8. Develop accountability
Accountability
is be crucial to overcoming the law of diminishing intent. Tell others what you’re doing and why. Don’t feel
like you have to do this on your own. Have an accountability partner. Ask them to check in on
your progress and monitor your journey to achievement. This will increase your
likelihood of achieving success.
It’s time to overcome the Law of Diminishing Intent – don’t put if off any longer.
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