The Power of Attitudes: “How to Do” vs. “Can Do”

 

A lot has been said about attitude in this generation, so I won’t bore you with redundant information. Attitude often takes center stage in the grand theatre of life. It’s the driving force that propels us toward our goals and shapes our perspective on challenges. It is also a determining factor of both success and failure. In the world of attitudes, two key players stand out: the “how to do” attitude and the “can do” attitude. While they may seem similar at first glance, they offer distinct approaches to achieving success, whether in the workplace, in personal endeavors, or when facing life’s uncertainties. Let’s explore the differences between these two attitudes and the impact they can have on our lives.

The Power of Every Moment: Embracing the Unstoppable Flow of Time

Has someone ever asked you if you have a minute to spare?

You most likely replied, “yea, sure. What’s up?”

The truth is; you don’t. You don’t have a minute to spare.

The 2023 General Elections: A Test of Values.

As the 2023 election campaigns officially begin, I can’t help thinking about this particular quote attributed to former US president Barack Obama. In the wake of president Obama’s first term election victory, he was quoted to have made a statement to GOP leaders which included

The title Things Fall Apart is taken from a poem by who?

While reading Things Fall Apart, you probably overlooked the epigraph or didn't care so much about it.

Turning and turning in the widening gyre

The falcon cannot hear the falconer;

Things fall apart; the centre cannot hold;

Mere anarchy is loosed upon the world,

This is the opening stanza of the poem,

WHY ARE YOU SABOTAGING YOURSELF?

 Are you still running with your New Year Resolutions and Goals or have you abandoned it the same way you did last year, with a mental note to go at it again next year? Do you even still remember what the resolutions are?

THE LAW OF DIMINISHING INTENT: Why you need to act now.

I first heard of the law of diminishing intent from Jim Rohn in one of his teaching videos. So what is this law about?

Here is John Maxwell’s explanation in an excerpt from his book, 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth:

“When I was a kid, one of my father’s favourite riddles to us went like this: Five frogs are sitting on a log. Four decide to jump off. How many are left?

LOCUS OF CONTROL: The Key to Taking Control of Your Life

As you go through life and come across its attendant highs and lows, you can either associate your experiences; the successes and/or failures, to factors you have control over or to forces outside your control. Whichever disposition you choose has a direct influence on your long-term success or failure.